How to send a circle of friends is appropriate and decent?

How to send a circle of friends is appropriate and decent? 

How to send a circle of friends is appropriate and decent? This problem is estimated to have troubled many people. In fact, you change your mind. As a reader of other people's circle of friends, what content do you want to see?

1. What is this person busy with recently?

Is it possible to cooperate.

2. What's the status of this person recently?

If Wang is approaching, decay is away, and if you need help, reach out.

3. Does this person have any fun to share?

Some people who are interesting or have ideas have a small network of friends.

The writer wants to show himself. This status of the circle of friends is sent out. It depicts my life and represents my temperament. But at the same time, it is necessary to make others comfortable, not just to show off and to be offensive to others.

There is a small branch of psychology, called health psychology, dedicated to studying how people should stay healthy. Researchers in this field believe that psychological and social factors will affect people ’s health, and their “health” refers to a A state of physical and mental stability and vitality.

Health psychology has its own views on active life. If it is applied to the management of the circle of friends, it is probably these proposals:

1. Never say something bad about yourself

As we said before, do n’t use negative energy in your circle of friends. For example, you should never say that you are fat, ugly, or flat chested. Even if you are laughing at yourself, try not to do it. Together-you mentioned constructive opinions and solutions.

Similarly, push yourself, if someone ridicules or hacks in the circle of friends, he does n’t want to pull you to hack yourself together. If it ’s not the kind of friend who is more than ten years old, you should reply : "You're not fat!" "Good!" "Try the rowing machine!"

2. Observe the circle of friends of people you like

Everyone has lived a lifetime, and they have met almost the same thing. If you find a friend who writes the same thing, she is smarter than you, and has more praise than you in his attitude. That is to learn and imitate.

Why do you describe the same thing differently? Your reactions and thoughts, when you describe your feelings, are there any inappropriate or offending places?

We often say that someone has a low EQ. In many cases, the person is doing something very inappropriate. He lacks the ability to observe and learn from others.

To know that many rules in society are established by convention, no one teaches you these rules in adulthood. You must often compare your own behavior with those of others to understand whether you meet these specifications.

For example, if everyone eats and drinks together, you can just walk around and send a message to everyone, but after returning to the table to say goodbye to everyone, then leaving is obviously a more decent way. And when you enter the elevator, you must be facing the door station, no one will warn you that the ass is immoral to the door station elevator, but everyone must think you are very strange.

3. Make some special good friends

You can send some group friend status to them. Sometimes you encounter good articles or mention someone, you can also choose "@ 某 朋友" to remind her to see, these must be more personal, you are sharing with each other Feel.

4. Show your ability to arrange life and manage time

Eating, drinking, and having fun every day can be a disgrace, and working overtime every day is tiresome. The best way is to "sing whatever song you want on the mountain." When you work, you have to be motivated and talk about the great future. And when you rest, even if the entertainment is boring, you should cherish the leisure time.

If you complain at work and want to take a good night ’s sleep, and complain that people are too crowded during Golden Week, the vacation spot suggested by your wife is full of people and might as well go back to work overtime. This will make your circle of friends look like a person whose life cannot be managed by themselves, and people will stay away from such people.

5. "What kind of person am I?"

You must have advantages, and remind your new and old friends from time to time. Some friends may have just opened the elevator to communicate with you, and you will have to judge and evaluate yourself in the ten circles of friends.

Just like the previous descriptions always say: pigs are treasures, meat is edible, skins can be tanned, and hairs can be used as brushes.

You should also always emphasize your strengths, not too deliberately.

For example, if it were me, I would say this:

"Since getting a license for psychological counseling ... helped a lot of friends."

"After riding more than twenty times on the Sichuan-Tibet line ..."

"The satyr expulsion kit, whistle and a pen for self-defense ..."

If you do n’t know anything, if you do n’t have anything, if you have difficulty communicating with people, and you can pass over on the spot when you speak in public, then there are advantages:

"I am a good listener, and my mouth is very strict (yes, I can't talk to anyone at all)."

Do n’t underestimate such expressions, and a friend you just met will quickly tag you-when he encounters problems and troubles, he will treat you as an expert in this field, or at least you can recommend an expert.

So you have to repeat it often:

"Friend, I have the abilities and qualities you want, come and make friends with me!"

6. Temporary Escape and Talk

When you want to send some very destructive negative energy, try to escape from your current environment. If it is work pressure, you must temporarily leave the office, go out to visit customers or hold a small meeting, and the administrator goes to the Social Security Bureau. , Finance took a trip to the tax bureau, photographed landscapes and flowers on the road, and a slight escape was a healthy way of decompression.

If you want to vomit, you can vomit with your good friend. It is best if your friend is willing to vomit his pressure. It is effective to compare with each other.

I said last time, don't send negative energy in the circle of friends. Here I emphasize again, especially don't send the negative energy that is vague and refers to Sang Huai. Checking the seat is the most likely to hurt the group.

Even if you have n’t offended anyone, people who are worried about you will ask you what happened, and you have to explain for half a day that you have n’t done anything serious in 4 hours.

7. Talk about failure

Many shy people are unable to tolerate the embarrassment of repression when they encounter failure and frustration. They must speak up to others to feel more comfortable.

"I made a mistake today ..."

If you ca n’t help but have to post it in your circle of friends, remember to mention the positive factors in this failure-"I made a mistake today, found a seat on the subway, and found it when I sat down and wanted to play with my mobile phone. An air conditioner remote control. "

This circle of friends is an old man. Even if it is your real story, it can only prove that you are stupid, and a group of people will like it.

"I made a mistake today and found a seat on the subway. When I sat down and wanted to play with my mobile phone, I found an air conditioner remote control. Okay, now I am the most powerful person in the neighborhood."

Add a location below this state, XXX air-conditioning factory, there will be a group of people below ha ha ha ha.

If you must talk about failure, add a little sense of humor to it.

If you have no confidence in your sense of humor, then don't talk about any failures.

8. Show some time alone

If you have to compare, drying pets is better than drying baby, and drying baby is better than show love. Do n’t really think that “spreading dog food” is a warm thing. In fact, not many people really care about your family life. As we said just now, the purpose of looking at the circle of friends is to harvest friends ’information and observe whether you are still It was as strong as before.

It is useful to mention the boyfriend ’s industry or service company, but it is worthless to post two pictures that are beautified without a human face. Now WeChat and the circle of friends are increasingly turning to tool attributes and becoming tools for work-more and more strangers appear in the circle of friends and show too much of their personal lives. In fact, it is already unwise and inappropriate. .

Compared with drying pets, baby, and boyfriends and girls, some time alone is emotional and interesting.

Be aware that people who read your circle of friends will have a voyeuristic sense of intervening in your life. If you seem to be alone, you are shooting landscapes or occasional selfies, the reader feels that you have experienced something with you, if you are a double Self-portraits or someone shooting for you, it is difficult for the reader to enter this scene-because there are too many people, he is an intruder, a third person.

So clever women who are good at showing their charm will never shoot boyfriends. Occasionally selfies are occasionally basking in some famous celebrities, so let the focus be focused on yourself, it seems that you are alone in the world.

Running at night, yoga, fishing, watching flowers, flying kites, drinking tea, and doing arts and crafts can all look a lot like doing it alone.

And, in fact, doing these things alone is really good.

This is a good opportunity to empty yourself and relieve stress.

Revisited, the circle of friends is two and a half, they are:

I am busy, but very good;

I am strong and useful;

I am very interesting (optional).

Finally, a practice question:

In the following things, the ideal friend circle material is (multiple choices):

A. Thread-bound books that my friends have bought from unknown sources, I am reading;

B. Recently, I am going to participate in a certain event in Modu. Are there any friends nearby in those days?

C. Some of your experience in the field of diving, by the way, criticize those salivating tourist diving strategies are not true;

D. After upgrading the system, your phone becomes a brick, but you took 30 minutes to get it done in time, and wrote a simple guide;

E. I just scolded an ignorant restaurant waiter, such people should educate them