如果你特别喜欢一个人 那么你一定配不上他、、、
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患得患失 瞻前顾后 反倒丢失了当下
天生我才必有用，却一直不知怎么用，
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别让任何人打乱你的人生节奏
I know people who graduted at 21 and didn't get a job until they were 27
I know people who graduted late at 25 and they found work immediately
I know people who never went to university but found what they love at 18
I know people who found a job straight out of college making decent money,but hate whar they do.
I know people who took gap years and found their purpose
I know people who were so sure about what they were going to do at 16 ,they change their mind at 26
I know people who have children but are single
and I know people who are married but had to wait 8 to 10 years to have children
I know people in relationshios who love someone else
I know people who love each other but aren't together
So my point is everything in life happens according to our time our clock
You may look at some of your friends and think that they're ahead of you
maybe some of them you feel are behind,but everything happens at their own pace
They have their own time and clock and so do you
Be patient
At age 25 Mark Cuban was a bartender in Dallas
It took till 32 J,K Rowling to be published for Harry Potter after being rejected by 12 publidhers
Ortega launched Zara when he was 39
Jack Ma started Alibaba when was 35
Morgan Freeman got his big break at 52
Steve Carell only got his break after 40 years old
Virgin was started by Richard Branson at 34
Getting your degree after 25 is still an achievement
Not being married at 30 but still happy in beautiful
Starting a family after 35 is still possible
and buying a house after 40 is still great
Don't let anyone rush you with their timelines
Because as Einstein said
Not everything that counts can be counted
and not everything that's counted truly counts
And this is the most important thing
I want you to be able to create meanuingful,purposeful fullfilling lives for yourselves
and learn how to use that to make an inpact and a diffrent in the lives of others
That will be true success
有的人21岁毕业 到27岁才找到工作
有的人25岁才毕业 但马上就找到了工作
有人没上过大学 却在18岁就找到了热爱的事
有的人一毕业就找到了好工作 赚很多钱 却过的不开心
有的人选择间隔年 去寻找自我
有的人在16岁就清楚知道自己想要什么，但在26岁时改变了想法
有的人有了孩子 却还是单身
有的人结了婚 却等了10年才生孩子
有的人身处一段感情 爱的却是别人
有的人明明彼此相爱 却没有在一起
我想说的是 人生中的每一件事情都取决于我们自己的时间
你身边有些朋友也许遥遥领先于你
有些朋友也许落后于你 但凡事都有它自己的节奏
他们有他们的节奏 你有你自己的
耐心一点
库班25岁的时候还在酒吧做酒保
在被拒绝12次后，JK罗琳到32岁才出版了哈利波特
Ortega 到39岁才创办了Zara
马云爸爸35岁才建立了阿里巴巴
摩根弗里曼到52岁才迎来他演艺事业的大爆发
Steve Carell 40 岁才红
Richard Branson 34 岁才创办了维珍航空
25岁后才拿到文凭 依然值得骄傲
30岁没结婚，但过得快乐也是一种成功
35岁之后成家也完全可以
40岁买房也没什么丢脸的
不要让任何人扰乱你的时间表
因为爱因斯塔曾经说过
并不是每一件算出来的事 都有意义，也不是每一件有意义的事 都能够被算出来
这才是最重要的事、
我希望你们可以创造属于自己的充满意义的人生
学会用这些去影响点亮他人的生活
这才是真正的成功
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