1. The extravagant expectation of certainty is the weakness of human nature.
2. Ma Hui said: At the age of 15, he discovered that his father was an ordinary person, at the age of 35, he discovered that he was an ordinary person, and at the age of 55, he discovered that the child was an ordinary person.
3. It’s like writing poetry at the age of 15 is a genius, but at the age of 30, it’s an idiot who insists on writing poetry. I’m almost 30, and I still play games every day. I don’t know what I’m thinking? The game is not only a waste of time, but also makes people afraid of being frustrated by reality, further hiding in the game, and clearing the level with ease.
4. Most people worry that they have no network resources, but never worry that their ideological resources will be exhausted earlier.
5. People who are eager to enter this circle and enter that circle may always be outside the circle. Your perception is your circle. It doesn't matter who you hang out with or how much you drink.
6. Why is the experience and lessons of others useless to me? Because it is difficult for me to reflect on the experience and lessons of others with personal pain. For example, "Jin Ping Mei" is just a beautiful book in the eyes of many people.
7. Existence precedes essence means, don't rush to define yourself, and always be ready to follow the good.
8. The greatest help and kindness is: provide opportunities and incentives to exercise and try, so as to improve ability. This is true for children, relatives, friends, and yourself. The recipients often only want money.
9. Those who just blindly reach out for help, begging for this and that, even if you help him, he will not help others. My approach is to design various filters to block them out.
10. Only when the cost is not too high can we persist for a long time. Whether it's friendship, gratitude, or filial piety, it's mostly like this.
11. When interacting with people, if you feel that the other party is very righteous and you are very suitable, you are worried about whether there will be a next time.
12. The so-called friend is someone who thinks you are good to him, so he will think of you when he has good things.
13. Like attention and freedom, respect has attributes that are difficult or even impossible to increase in total. But everyone needs more respect.
14. If the whole society does not try its best to improve mutual equality and mutual mutual respect, and increase the total amount of equality and respect, but all want to get ahead, but the relative positions are always high and low, and will not change, so most people I feel that no matter how hard I try, the involution is hopeless, and it is a result that is destined and not surprising at all.
15. In order to increase the total amount of respect in social relationships, do not talk about race, ethnicity, religion, gender, class, country, education topics in public, and do not take the initiative to talk about them among friends.
16. Psychological energy is heart energy, which is the display of psychological forces such as impulse, courage, willpower and various characteristics of emotions and feelings that make people aware of their own needs and subjectivity, and drive people to take appropriate actions.
Author: Liu Ren
Editor: Gu Lei
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