In the Tang Dynasty, when Mr. Buddhist Po Chu-liked, and once he went up the mountain to ask a monk, called the birds nest Jackson. He said the Jackson up front, "Jackson, how a Buddhist?" Jackson told him eight words, "evil and Mo for, pursue the public good." After these eight finished, Po Chu would laugh, he said: "The year-old child knows," Jackson back to him saying: "eighty man do not." The year-old child knows the truth, a lot of people live to be eighty years old still can not do. So this story tells us that learning really the most important is the ability to exercise, can be implemented, so learn ten million, it is better to do one. So this "in-depth", indeed even a strong effort to line depth. And we guide the children to seek knowledge, it must be necessary to establish good from the beginning of time, if at first you do not pay attention to the line corresponding solution, the child will back the more classic the more self-righteous. So everything should be cautious in the beginning, the beginning of the way, his entire study on the right; the beginning is wrong, is not easy to come back again to reverse.
So once I went to Shenzhen, just with the kids a lesson a group of kindergarteners, I went in, I told the children said: "The kids, the teacher today to the" Students "." Children immediately said in unison: "Teacher, we learned that, we will be back up", only six years old. I then told the children to say, I said: "We read the classics most important thing is to do a moral person, learn to be a moral person learned." I then wrote a word, wrote a "channel." Chinese Six Books created characters, the smart philosophy of life are contained in, knowing this is a word used to create the word. Let's look at a "First", a "go" next to the word, so what important knowledge comes? Go to practice. So moral person is to first be able to implement, to push through the people, is a moral person. "Gentlemen children, which one do you?" Would have been raised to very high head, this sentence I thought, "What word do?" Immediately head is low down.
Q: how about even the first sentence?
A: I can not do.
"Parents call, do not be slow." You can see the kids, I said that seven or eight very'll talk back with their parents, my friends say, what to wait seven or eight years old! Four or five years old is very powerful, but also seven or eight years old. So you see him the first sentence of no do it, so he asked the school's attitude did not return to the beginning to exercise. In fact, children are taught, as long as you speak so that he could be convinced, he will be able to receive. So that day in which there is a child diary when he wrote, Tsai with us today on the "Students", Tsai said, "Students" is used to do, and not brought back, he wrote it go up.
In addition there is a child, because I told him a lesson on the "Students", which has one called "the morning of the province, is scheduled faint," that is, the morning greeting parents at night to keep up, so that parents happy, at ease. The results the next day a little girl stood in front of her parents' room, the parents came out just like parents bow to say, "Dad, Mom, good morning, not sleep well yesterday?" Her parents immediately called to the nursery, "happened yesterday What happened? "such parents are very alert, very sensitivity that the child has changed schools must teach, to be able to immediately understand the close cooperation with the teacher, so that parents and teachers collaborate, teach the child was particularly good. So we must seek knowledge to guide their children start to fall onto the correct position. Therefore, "an in-depth" is to rely on "exercise" plus "school text."
Again, "Xunxiu long." "Long" we have just mentioned, do not do one rest day, that was not feasible. Confucius said he was three days without reading, temperament will be back, Confucius will be back, and then we three days without reading what will happen? We do not say three days without reading, they were still there might read "Students", to see some bad behavior of children, you will immediately angry yells. Still chanting the book when it is not restrained temper, began to get angry together, the birth of gas suddenly come back to, I just still read "Rules." So we now foundation than the poor, the so-called "people you knew," they have a few two important myself clear, so now we are put down by the book on the terrifying. Now that we know our foundation is not good, but should be more efforts and more sophisticated, so the classic sages can not stop every day, every Xunxiu.
So I give a lot of posts opened a teacher of traditional Chinese medicine, Chinese medicine and this quote is absolutely cure, there is more than just treating the symptoms, which posts medicine? Morning and evening recite it again "Rules." Sooner or later recite it again, to ensure effective three months, definitely makes you feel morality, knowledge upgrade soon, we should adhere to three months. You friends, can do a show of hands? so little. There are also a lot of friends raised their hands, after a show of hands to complete exercise, "Students" say "Where verbally, letter to the first" when it comes to do. In fact you friends, I am not going to give you stress, a person's moral learning achievement can definitely not rely on others to force you, you have to rely on their own initiative, hard work, hard work, we must in order to achievement. So why read it sooner or later? Read in the morning, tell yourself doing today must be "Students" teachings. At night from work, school and then come back to read it again, contemplation about, reflect on the actions of today has ever done, "Students", some of which if not done, quickly corrected quickly turn over, has done well maintained. So I remind myself once in the morning, to reflect on his time in the evening.
We in Haikou, there is one teacher who really did it. The woman surnamed Xu, Haikou airport in her work, she is not the first line of a teacher, and she lectures that day, I feel very deeply, intently, listen very carefully. I often tell people the story of some of the saints, vibration pen illness book she immediately put it down, but sooner or later, absolutely all recite it again. Three months later, she told me to come, "Tsai, such a good knowledge of sages can not only benefit me and my children, I'm going back to my hometown take forward" Students "take forward the moral education." Three months to teach her the courage to return home. Because she really honest, how about her on how to do, so she often said, every time she wants to make mistakes, "Students" the Scriptures, "verbal forbearance, anger from obliterate" suddenly keep people quarrel, the Wen ran in. Interactive time with their parents, "Parents call, do not be slow", the tone may be slightly or else is good, like an arrow, as soon scripture came on the radio, so vigilance is particularly high, so she was also particularly fast progress, so to be able to return to his hometown to teach after just three months.
So she did it standing ambition, so that the gravity line learning, learning to be honest. When she made this wish, to return home to teach, a lot of teachers are very willing to put some valuable experience, selfless told her, our center also put a lot of books, many sages stories to her. So "people would like to have a good day from God" when you actually send out a sincere heart to do a good thing, do not you worry, a lot of help will come.
所以这位老师确确实实是做到了「长时熏修」。「熏」就好象你拿着檀香在衣服上绕一绕，这衣服就很有香味，你假如每天都熏，那个香味就愈来愈浓。「修」是指修正，在哪里修正？在生活的点点滴滴当中修正，生活的哪些点滴当中修正？从我们的想法、看法、说法、做法开始来修正。
比方说《弟子规》说「人有短，切莫揭」，人家有缺点、有过失的时候，不要常常拿着别人过失到处告诉别人，假如这个攸关他的名节，就会让人家很痛苦。「人有私，切莫说」，这个就是我们的说法应该要能利益别人，而不是损害别人。我们有朋友说，他这几个月修学最深刻的就是这一句话，「人有短，切莫揭；人有私，切莫说」。因为以前讲人家的是是非非讲习惯了，所以一下子还觉得真难改，所以常常他这个话还没出来，这个句子就到了，「人有短，切莫揭」。其实我们修正自己的过失在哪里修？在生活点点滴滴修，这个叫做「历事炼心」。
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