A child who does not think they will have a golden life it?
But an adult, but how many people can really have extraordinary life it?
1, I'm just an ordinary person
I figure ordinary, looks ordinary. In the crowd, is read at first glance, ordinary people can not remember the second eye.
My family did not mine, not a second-generation rich. See something they like, not want to only buy.
My parents are very ordinary, they do not have highly educated, did not read many books. They can not provide a lot of material support to me.
My talent is not outstanding, can not never forget, by analogy; I am not good, never before had the first exam.
My score is not bad, but sometimes I wish I could, but almost, because the teacher will be at least "special attention" to those poor students, but few pay attention to ordinary people like me.
Although I timid, afraid to raise their hands to speak in class; although I can not speak, one could be talking about someone else; although I am not like other students as good karma, you can only sit in one corner of the classroom side.
But I finished the job on time, I never fight, never discipline, I try to do a good student, but in the end, even the teacher could not utter my name.
I paint a bad picture, but also dance well dance, singing is not nice. Every time encounter cultural performances, I can only sit in the audience, looking up at the stage glittering stage, the way your own fantasy on stage look.
When I was a job interview, you can not write a beautiful resume, also pay no perfect report card.
So I can only hold an extraordinary work, in an extraordinary position to do some extraordinary things.
I can not make a performance every minute, so that the leaders colleagues with admiration.
Blockbuster would not be able to do a counter-attack may be the dark horse, I can only get down to do my job, try not to make mistakes.
Adulthood me, was to buy a house, buy a car, marriage, career and desperately running.
I did not win the lottery, nor is evicted, my everything, desperately have to rely on themselves to work hard to change back.
In short, both past and present, my life is ordinary.
However, in this society advocating cultural elite, the ordinary becomes unacceptable.
Ordinary people, most of them plead that the ordinary is only the beginning of life, if they work hard, we will eventually be extraordinary.
But cruelty is extraordinary, in fact, most of us in the end.
2, most ordinary people are unwilling to ordinary
Now, an elite cultural heyday.
Every year, countless "Rich List", "power rankings", "outstanding achievement list" reminds us at the moment:
This world, there are a lot of extraordinary people, but not you.
整个社会都在鼓吹一种人生观：命运，把握在自己手上，只要努力奋斗，你就能够不平凡。
于是，我们大多数人，一边跟随者成功人士的步伐，一边喝着热气腾腾的鸡汤，努力摆脱平凡。
我们平凡，却不甘平凡。
但我们却逐渐发现一个残酷的事实，那就是：
不管你多优秀，总有人会比你更优秀。
你以为自己分外出众，却不曾想，其实自己只是芸芸众生中最不值一提的那一个。
当你在为一个月几千块的工资累死累活的时候，有些人却能轻轻松松赚到多于你好几倍的报酬。
在你连自己所在城市有哪些风景都说不出来的时候，却有人每天游山玩水、正在周游世界。
当你拼劲全力，只想要在二三线城市过安稳日子的时候，却有人在朋友圈炫着他的开挂人生。
知乎上有一个高赞问题：
你是什么时候发现自己是一个平凡人的？
网友回答：
当我爸很严肃的对我说，他真的没有隐瞒富翁身份的那一天。[cr.黄药师]
当生活与理想差距越来越大的时候，当我大部分时候实现不了心中所想的时候。[cr.优雅的猪]
当我意识到，讲话要尽量少用第一人称“我”的时候。（因为没有人会真正在意你到底怎么想）[cr.匿名用户]
当我真正知道自己要干什么的时候，真正开始理解“我是谁”“要去哪”的时候。[cr.建筑喵Meowarch]
当我拼尽全力去做一件事，却发现自己不断遇到困难，而且永远不可能达到，某些人付出一点努力就能达到的高度的时候。[cr.Joker Joan]
当我喜欢一个人，却没办法让她也喜欢上我的时候。[cr.Joker Joan]
当我信誓旦旦，却最终屈服于现实的时候。[cr.匿名用户]
当我拼尽全力，只为能过上普通人生活的时候。[cr.何为]
每个人都想活的热气腾腾，但却不是每个人都能拥有开挂的人生。
3、和“平凡的自己”和解
平凡人的逆袭，是有的。
就像创造101的杨超越，就像支付宝锦鲤“信小呆”。
但这个世界，有几个杨超越呢？又有几个“信小呆”呢？
Yang beyond, is 1/101, the letter Xiao Dai, is 1/3000000.
The rest of the people, it can only, while watched lucky with his pass, then while deceive ourselves, the next koi, will most likely be yourself.
Do not be silly!
The world is so cruel, most of us are not heaven-sent luck, it will not become the world make the gear rotation.
Most of us are only unknown is to promote the gears of workers.
Most of us, fate, will go ordinary, mediocre Fanfan will finish their ordinary life.
People always go Forgive yourself, to acknowledge his own shortcomings and ordinary.
We may not be the protagonist of the whole world, but it is the only protagonist of his own world.
Its his life, to pursue "fate" of the ordinary, it is better to choose and "Ordinary own" reconciliation.
And that "Ordinary own" reconciliation.
Is put down in the past, with precipitation to replace regret, I realize I have a young and ignorant;
It is to grasp now, not good enough to accept their own now, current efforts to achieve the ultimate thing.
Is looking forward to the future, not afraid of the future vast anterior, believe that they will eventually be able to find a better themselves.
A truly successful people, both to recognize the success of the United States, advocating self-struggle; it can accept ordinary reality, embracing years of quiet good.
There is a saying that good:
growth, is a discovery and acceptance of "their very ordinary" process.
Accept the ordinary, enjoy the ordinary, extraordinary real