Talk about technology today, to talk about "issues" this issue.
Have you paid attention to ways and means of their own questions? We might as anti thinking about, more or less we will be asked questions, but some questions will make you "impressed", such as:
"in?"
"In it?"
"In the not?"
I encountered such problems when Pippi are generally confused: What if I said, if you want to borrow money from me how to do? What if I say no, if you ask me to eat how to do?
I believe that many students have increased over into some of the technical group, almost every day is full of such problems in these techniques the group:
"There is big brother in it?"
"Is anyone here?"
"Some people will do?"
"Some people understand me?"
"Someone can teach me?"
If you see these problems, what would your first reaction is that your heart will pop out a few very "harmonious" word? If you see such problems, how they would want to ask questions? So we have to think about, I have not asked a similar question? We have not thought about the feelings of the listener to ask a similar question of time?
Sometimes the problem will be presented in another form:
"Big brother, hello, I would like to ask ... (50+ omitted word) ... and then ... (50+ omitted word) ... so ... (50+ omitted word) ... ( 200+ word omitted) ... how you think we should do? and what you plan? "(question of a few hundred words, intermediate reference folder at great length codes, various sizes screenshots, photos)
You're asking a ghost le. . .
Sometimes the problem will presented in this form:
"Cluster performance testing should test those indicators, or you did not have the relevant documents?"
This problem seems easy to answer, or no answer there to get away. The key is behind this answer will be filled with a lot of questions: What are the specific indicators? What documents? How to test? What tools? How to use these tools? Hit what effect? How the expression? These indicators have any effect? How to use these indicators?
We think about, I have not asked a similar question? So there was no thought of each other's feelings at the time to ask questions?
As is often harassment issues since the inquiry Pippi a universal response options: Tell me about your ideas.
We come under simulated dialogue experience:
A: "? Will the database cache and how to ensure data consistency"
B: "Tell me about your ideas"
A: "I think there are several options ... balabala, Scenario 1 .. .balabala, advantages, disadvantages .. program ... 2 "
B:" you're right. "
A: "May I ask how data deduplication?"
B: "Tell me about your ideas"
A: "I do not know,"
B: "roll"
Many times, I was doing a taker, it is very clear conscience, but that it had not taken seriously, not seriously thought about, there is no serious effort to find out about a lot of people even have to ask installation questions.
Up to ask, "Why?", "How is it?", "How to do" is to some extent understandable, the questioner will inevitably ignorant of related fields behind the questions asked. But for the respondent, he should spend a lot of time to explain to you related to this issue "front" knowledge, no one is willing to do so unless he is obliged to you. So, who is obliged to answer for you? You need to do their own problems related to the pre-research. If you refuse to spend time on what basis the replacement time of others (life)?
After self-knowledge, at least you will not know anything, at least you will have a heart direction. Ask After Think. In fact, the previously mentioned "talk about your idea" is not without grounds to do with your ideas deduction, do verify, and then take your understanding to questions. Put another point of view, when you make a right, in fact, this problem has been solved half.
Bring your own point of view, will not let the respondents feel "This is a long story," make choices easier to explain than long-winded. Questioning is a skill, often clever questioner harvest more answer.
Good questions and concerns can show a person's ability to think, but also more easily targeted to gain valuable experience. Meanwhile, in the interaction between people, the question is the communication link, good question the conversation harmonious atmosphere; bad people to ask questions or bored, or cold field. Recommend a book "how to ask questions."
Not a white prostitute, reaching the party, giant baby. "Project urgent, reminder tight grip, I did not have time to read," "I'm too lazy to look," "I'm comin '****, and you can not tell me?", A question of if, when mixed with these words, then You may wish to use a radical words to refute: "________ (fill in the blank 1)."
To sum up: ________ (fill in the blank 2)
User response 1: Generally speaking, questioning and questioning the prevailing mood is people are very important.
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