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Smiling face life in a person's life, we go through a lot of things. Among them, many of them failed to do. Faced with it,
different people have different attitudes. Some people failed to do anything heard, immediately depressed all day,
give up on themselves; while others are different, the face of failure, because they always actively looking for failure, heavy head and then
come.
There is a saying: "Failure is the mother of success." Romain Rolland once said: "To turn grief into strength.
" Indeed, when we face failure, must not be brought to its knees, to learn to smile face failure. Do not lose
lose as much of a big deal it away ruthless, ruthless because your enemies will affect the judgment. We should lose
failed to see it mildly, the only way to overcome it, victory or defeat is standard issue thing.
All times, the tens of thousands of millions of people in their life on the road faced failure. Some of them meet the difficulties
retire, some people have worked hard, it was to reach the end. Quitting brave victory, only those who adhere to the last
man and later with the achievement, while the other two people and vice versa.
Former US President Abraham Lincoln is a very typical example. When he was young, doing business, campaign staff instrument,
back and forth trying for nearly twenty times, he failed. But he finally became a US history
one of the greatest presidents. Lincoln contrary, is Simon generals of the Kuomintang army. General Xue had "in the military in
the South China tiger" in the title, it is one of Chiang Kai-shek's skeleton staff. He strategist, clever repel the Japanese more than
offense. When Xue general was deified media on the occasion, he was proud of being killed because of Japan's defeat. Since then, the Chinese
Nanhu you depressed, never commanded any decent battle of.
Then the long road of life, we will experience many failures, large and small. Some failed even to be
large enough beyond our mental capacity. But we can not be discouraged, not to concede defeat, like that
, then it is equivalent to abandon his own. We should go forward, preoccupied with failure to overcome, or too successful
at that moment, nor to have any distractions, not just hard, too happy also affect judgment.
Life positive article: face life
Start with a two stories.
D and E are small little friend, small D stock recently made a fortune lot of money, so let small small D E recommended a few stocks
, recommended the stock began to fall just bought a small E ah this heart is not a taste, are blame themselves had to listen to him, his own
money, but I was set to go, and if you do not listen to another person's been up it ......
Another story, a small A and B are friends of small, small B to introduce a small customer A, A little later this client in this
case a large order, second-year small A to a promotion, but also found a condition good object. Small B encounter and they say,
he ah, can have today is all my credit ah ......
We often encounter in life these two phenomena, by others to help things go bad direction to go, you do not blame
people; to help others, something good direction, it is all their own credit. This is called Lee my heart in psychology
management.
Others help us, something good direction side show, we want to thank, things go bad direction,
also like to thank, because at that moment perhaps he really can not find a better way. We help others, things
go bad direction or to the right direction, have little to do with us, because the decision was his
own. But easy to say, in reality, the bad results we always think let others bear good result is their own
decision.
The reason why this phenomenon today, is to make people understand less resentment, because it is their own decision,
every decision is most conducive to their own choice in that situation; less credit for pride, because decisions
are others the success of things with his effort and personality related. Perhaps to understand this truth, our life
will be far fewer conflicts and dissatisfaction.
Life has nothing to do with fate, with their selection.
Do not regret it, than do three things: First, know how to choose; the second is to understand how to adhere; Third, know
how to cherish.
Do not go to other people's envy surface of scenery, in fact, everyone has their inner pain.
Right to travel, see the world more, you will find that the original knot care about nothing at all.
I heard, doomed people together, no matter how big the circle is still around will return to each other's side.
We are a group of unbridled laughter in the sun, but in the moonlight hysterical crying of children.
I always want to get a lot of quiet time, and uncomfortable for a long time.
Either deep, or funny, or quiet.
Previously had superficial time, time now flies imperceptibly.
Do a little people, little desire to meet small, is big happiness.
Life has nothing to do with fate, with their selection.