[Branch] Tinyfool Hao Peijiang people Shanghai line: middle age began in the micro-serviced business, bear the physical and mental pain affixed to the ground

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November 20, 2019, Shanghai Yaohan Starbucks, Tinyfool strictly imprisoned to come to an appointment after 6:30, which is saddled with a physical and mental pain, walking in the way of business technology people. In the IT field, in the future anxiety, panic in the mood filled with unknown breeding, Kechuang person account of life collapses to a short fragment Tinyfool reconstruction, hope we can bring a little inspiration and comfort.

Avalanche once misdiagnosed for some life

Tinyfool there had been two entrepreneurial experience, his distinctive personal style entrepreneurship: aimed at a deterministic wave, join follow. First, test the water with a friend to lead Google's search technology, departure to the financial crisis; second, follow-up Apple to subvert the mobile Internet wave of the world, beyond an accident. He filled his own money wages of every employee, "a hard brothers, do not owe."

After two entrepreneurs, Tinyfool wait a moment, do not see significant opportunities for certainty, then return to the workplace, as a company CTO.
Before the summer of 2018, everything was calm. This August, Tinyfool visit to Shanghai with friends after dinner, aggravated diabetes, had to resign recuperate. Gradually the passage of time, not only did not improve the condition, also appeared in some of the symptoms seen before, such as small wounds slow to heal, rapid weight soared. When initially asked doctors, the diagnosis is "normal reaction diabetes," continues to go home to observe. Delay more than a month, the amount of weight to rise with ten kilograms, Tinyfool help the medical community friends, the latter replied, "like kidney dysfunction," a doctor again just lock the crux, the right medicine, "within a week and lost 20 kg body weight."

From the left, suffered a misdiagnosis to basic recovery, not only nearly a year and make no use of large sums of money, but also greatly affected the Tinyfool mood, so that he had sensitive, easily hurt the character, upgraded emotional pain: nest at home, but no one , take-away food and drink wear online shopping, addicted to the game (in the "legend of Zelda" in climbing every day, can micro-channel sports a few steps one day less than 300) and video, sleep very irregular, and even the Chinese New Year did not go home with his family reunion.
Avalanche effect caused by misdiagnosis already let Tinyfool miserable, but to a greater blow Immediately after: the emergence of a large number of attacks directed Tinyfool comments on the internet for business failure, for mood disorders, for various personal qualities ...... tricky angle, scale the big let Tinyfool suffered heavy losses.
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The most frustrated when he considered back home in Tianjin, stay with their parents, can go a stable life will be good. But he soon realized that this is an unlikely option: his household spending did not shrink while you recuperate, eventually had to borrow money to survive, "if returned home, pay back the money it would be difficult to find a surplus of work It will also affect future girlfriend. "

Has stepped into the fourth decade of Tinyfool, had to face livelihood, "he resigned at the beginning thought it was just under a little break, also went to Japan to play in a circle, did not expect the collapse of the small year, was reduced to wondering how to make money to repay . "

Middle-aged man in the world is not a simple word

Middle-aged vulnerability has become one of the social hot topic, it looks beautiful lifestyle, perhaps bearing pressure is limited, IT people is to become the main topic of this group. Tinyfool income has not low, but the resignation of tourism to borrow money to survive, but also separated by only a misdiagnosis distance
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▲ From " caused the team's 3 letter ", author: LIU Run.

Basic recovery of Tinyfool, try to start looking for work from home to improve their financial situation, "it was like a very simple, short of money, find a satisfactory salary job."

如果要用一个词形容中年IT从业者的2019,即便不是恶意满满、哀鸿遍野,起码也是兵荒马乱、风声鹤唳。Tinyfool自大学毕业之后,就没担心过找工作的问题,两次大胆创业也是揣着“大不了回去打工”的底气,然而这一次,他环顾四野、八方打探,却没找到一份符合他条件的工作,不是薪水偏低,就是职位不符,“有些企业委婉的表示年龄大了,有些会问你能做些什么具体的工作,就是以往我员工做的那些”。

求职受挫,将他的心情进一步推向谷底,但这一次他的心理防御体系发挥了作用。
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调整心态重新出发,Tinyfool首先想到的是自己使用多年、拥有一定流量基础的新浪、微信等媒体平台个人号,其中微信已经产生了一些广告收益。“一直以来时不时会收到一些广告意向,但没把它当成一件正事去做。下了决心之后,梳理了有广告意向和已经合作的客户,讨价还价、排期,结果一启动就把我和粉丝都吓了一跳:一连发了12篇广告。”12连发的后果自然是掉粉和非议,Tinyfool纠结片刻,决定再作观察。

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12连广告缓解了Tinyfool的生活压力,也让他对打造适合自己的创业模式有了更大的信心:“比起做一个很大的事情,给自己很大的压力ALL IN于一个偏低的几率,做一些单个规模不大但风险也不高的小项目,可能更适合我自己,既能增加收入,又能防止压力太大让自己掉进负面情绪。”

与世界和解

结合个人资源与自我特征(身心皆有病痛压力,需要稳定),Tinyfool构建了一款个性化的创业模式,姑且称之为Tinyfool的微服务创业:单体可用,解耦,相对独立但内在有一定价值关联。
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前三项,是Tinyfool计算好剂量为自己施加的压力,“强迫自己做一些能做的事,保证自己处于相对健康的生活状态之下。虽然每添一个项目都是压力,但也能带来成就感,只要有一个项目成功就能给我足够的心力,去耐心等待其他项目开花结果。”

第四项,则是Tinyfool对《Rework》模式的试水(左耳朵耗子陈皓在接受科创人专访时深谈过《Rework》模式)。以英语轻松读这款APP为例,Tinyfool与合作伙伴Sycx建立起了这样一种工作模式:自己负责服务端、产品规划,Sycx做iOS端。代码放在Github上,一切需求和bug用Github的Issues系统来管理,工作流用Github的Projects来管理(一个自动化的看板),每天早晚各打一个电话。

采访过程中,Tinyfool反复强调工作流程的重要性,“绝不做甩手掌柜”。如今他已摆脱了还债压力,赚钱不再是燃眉之急,健康驱动已经完全取代了利益驱动:身体健康,心理健康,也包括工作方式的健康。他希望Rewok模式能够健康成长:“朋友们愿意相信我,把一些小活交给我,如果按照常见的派单模式100%甩给其他人做,那是对项目不负责,也不利于我自己的情绪健康。我决定每一个项目都要力所能及地参与一部分,哪怕就10-20%,还要保持与技术合作者的规律沟通,不仅能掌控项目进展,朋友们之间也能多说说话,心情会好很多。”
如今Tinyfool已经开辟了多个小项目线,像园丁一定每天定时修剪枝杈、浇水施肥。第三次创业,完全有别于前两次“立项-融资-堆规模”的标准三板斧,但他认为也许这才是最正确的做事方式。

2019年,Tinyfool一边建立起了健康的自我协调、让自己的情绪基本稳定于乐观的状态中,一边也逐渐理解了一些人和事。
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With the improvement in mood, to good living conditions, Tinyfool attitude to life are changing. He did not think they fully become another person, "Some things may insist on more than ever," but he himself admitted, "and gradually found a feeling of reconciliation with the world." Just a few days before the interview Kechuang people, Tinyfool of Weibo account was banned a year, a direct impact on some of the advertising project he is promoting, "If a year ago, this matter let me down for a long time, and now it does not matter, a girlfriend had found several days, I called to ask not affected by, and I said no X thing. "

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▲ Tinyfool be more seriously than ever before health management, not only to carefully monitor their physiological indicators, also received imprisoned requirements of a project, "in the work environment for their mobilization efforts, much higher than stay home."

In an interview after two hours into the routine of "auspicious" stage, we wish the success of the project, developed rapidly and so on, Tinyfool seriously paused, to say the phrase: "I do not know these things can not be do it, and even how long this business model, but now this is the best for my model. I think about how, if someone gave me a lot of money, so I do have a big goal, the next big thing, I should refuse, choose to continue living conditions of the moment. "

Do not seek high, not quickly, to health, to self-reliance.
Stick to the ground, began in middle age.
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